A little more about how my life experiences
have shaped my approach and philosophy:
I've been a student of
Zen and Tibetan Buddhism
for over 20 years. While spending a semester in Nepal in
college, I attended a workshop given by a Tibetan Monk. It
wasn't so much what he said that moved me as his countenance - he
seemed like the happiest person I had ever met, and the most peaceful.
I especially appreciate the teachings of Cheri Huber, Pema
Chodron, Thich Nhat Hahn and Sylvia Boorstein. (See my Powell's bookshelf for titles.)
I have a wonderful standard Poodle named
Francine who is a registered therapy animal. We visit
community centers and retirement homes together. Francine helps me
remember the importance of play, exercise and
snuggling.
My family joined a peace corps-type
communal living organization when I was seven, and we lived
in large mission-focused communities until I was 15. The
organization was started by Methodist activists in the '60's
and opened its first community on the West side of Chicago just
after the race riots. While the founders had some great ideas and made an
impact in some of their communities, it was a challenging environment
in which to be a child. I'm grateful for the experience and think it
greatly influenced my desire to help groups grow in a
healthy, sustainable way.
I'm an amateur astrologer and I
read tarot cards. I find the metaphors and perspective of both
systems deeply useful and beautiful. While I don't plan my
life according to the planets or the cards, I do find
that both help me and my clients see thelmselves and their
challenges in new and provocative ways.
I love birds and think they
have a lot to teach us about kinship, patience and perseverance. I
find myself learning from them often and write about them a lot in
my blog.
My favorite bird is the American Crow, who I
admire for it's ingenuity, persistence and commitment to
community.
I started writing poetry at
an early age and won a local college poetry contest in high school. Some
of my favorite poets are Mary Oliver, Heather McHugh, Anne Sexton and
Charles Simic.
I don't have children, but I have
four nephews I love dearly and close friends named their daughter
after me. I love being an Auntie.
I spoke 100 words before I turned
one. This may not be something to brag about, especially if
you're a person who prefers quiet, but it says a lot about my
personality.
I've had a leach on my
face (while trekking in Nepal) and a spider in my ear (while
sleeping in Seattle). Both times I kept thinking "wow this is going to
make one hell of a story!" and I was right!
I volunteer for and served on the board of
the Pride Foundation,
a Northwest Regional Community Foundation for GLBT
communities
I walk in Seward
Park, a gorgeous ear-shaped peninsula that sticks
out into Lake Washington, every chance I get. There are a big-leaf maples
with ferns growing on their limbs and two bald eagle nests that I like to
visit. In the summer I pick blackberries there and make jam from
them. |